I Strongly believe that being a dub Emasculates you as a man. Think of the practices you are expected to adapt into your life...Take the lesser position, be submissive to others, do not put your interest 1st. These are all characteristics that in essence neuter a man.
All the drive and passion a male should have and posses are drowned out thanks to WT teachings. Of course we all know about the whole sex thing. Not to sound to caveman-ish but I believe an important part of the transition to man-hood is to be able to woo women with your charm ;-)
Lastly what you focus your desires on and strive for, is what you can accomplish. First chance they get the WT$ focuses your desires on their 'will of jehovah' bullshit. Put kingdom interest 1st, dont think about higher education, focus on a career in kingdom service. All that conditioning serves to waste valuable energy and syphon off your best years in pursuit of a publishing companies BS.
This is a decent example of what I'm talking about (mainly the 1st part.)
http://roissy.wordpress.com/2011/02/17/the-creativity-stagnation/